, I am willing to open my heart when I’m good and ready. I have clear and coisnce character traits I am willing and capable of putting up with for the long run. And most importantly I am willing to give myself to this person. This person should be someone whom is worthy of the fullness of you. If/when you come across the woman who not only listens to your pov but fully understands it, then she will be The One . Your One! Not to say there won’t be other women who can, but just how many do you want to Love and honestly how much time do you have to Love them all lol? Of course there are still those out there with the hope that they can effectively Love them all. But my question would be Why would you rather please a bunch of women some of the time when you can choose to please one woman all the time. Better yet are you capable of even pleasing one woman all the time? Maybe its their fear of failure that prompts them to choose to cheat?